The Things We love The Most

Surprises, who doesn't love those.

Everyone in this world keep waiting for them for years.
They can be anyone like parents, friends, siblings, can be anyone.

And if you are in a relationship then those are the moments to live for.

Those are the moments to cherish your partner. To assure them they are present in this big world, living somewhere with memories and emotions. To make you happy for few hours to charge your battery of happiness. To show that even they can give surprises (for someone who didn't tried these for years). And finally, to share some times, the love words, the hugs, kisses and a lot more stuffs unexplained.

    So today from my treasure box called love I received a surprise, and that was after years, to be precise after two and half years from the first surprise. And what was the first one, it was a birthday present of Paulo Coelho's novel and lots of chocolates with a greeting card matching with my nature. There was a second one too but was on expected date as the first one, My Birthday. And today I was blessed to have another one, thank god it's not my birthday.
   Today she presented herself in front of me all of a sudden from Bangalore to Hyderabad. And yeah, I was amazed and surprised and as always she looks pretty and graceful. I must mention that some surprises are best when we need that a lot. And so as when I was in her memories from past few days, she gave me the gift I wanted in the moment, her presence with me. And the lovely moments we always desired for. We shared some hurtful lines, some bizarre thoughts, some love pranks, some emotional feelings and a lot hugs.
    Tonight ended with her departure back to home and one of the many days when I cared for her.

A Visit To Past

                At first it was a few seconds in call when I was with you, that you don’t even remember. Second it was you and your family and me with my army green coloured blazer hanging in my hand and a lit up face after getting that new. Then I felt overwhelmed when I discovered you have my number from my elder sister. And then what, I waited for you to start the flow of chats but I never get any ring on my phone from you. I could not resist anymore and don’t have the patience to wait for your call and then I just took your number and called you one night. I didn’t judge you. But yeah, with every person adding in my contact list I felt resourceful, so as when yours number I saved I felt I added a person in my life as a possible future friend.

                Then things went as usual like every other day but I have few times to call you once in a few months. They passed and we were nowhere, I mean, we were not even friends then. Just someone I have to call as I have her number as just a contact in my phone.

                Things Change, I invited you for a ride and then the unstoppable chats followed after that day. The rush in our bloods to connect and the charm of each other’s presence was something different. Though you are straight in your words that you felt about me in your heart but for me it was too quick to start. I ate your head for so long hours but at the end when you were fried up with my shattering words of uncertainties you were still intact in your heart about the feeling it had for me.

And then It Happens  and we have now just had our two anniversaries completed.

                Things will change and it had already shown us the trailer but there are lot more to discover and certainly sure we will be together to witness that in the coming years.

The First Girl

World’s best feeling will struck you when you are not alone which means there will be someone by your side for that moment. It can be all of a sudden and even a moment long awaited. Sometimes words don’t matter when you are with someone who doesn’t need the words to have a conversation, it can be just a warm presence to share few untold emotions. It can be a hug, a kiss, a cry for assurance, a sleep over the chest, overwhelmed eyes after seeing someone and god knows words too failed for lot of emotions. Being together is a gifted stuff to mankind which they can share by love, inspiration, possession and even in anger. Life’s true identity will be revealed when you are with someone to call the moment as being together with that someone.
I remembered the very first time when I was in love with someone and awaited a long time to listen the love words from her. From her side it was very complex but she knew I loved her from so long.
I Never have the courage to propose to my best friend to be my girlfriend. It was like you know everything about each other but no one has surfed the ocean of feelings one feel about love. And the worst thing she was in a relationship. So how can I, even in the nightmare, think to propose her. Moreover, Being a best friend I have to support her in her highs and lows. Days went past and gradually the distance between us get drifted far. It was then an evening, to be said as, when I haven’t speak a single word with her from past four months, she came to my house. She was angry and I discovered the reason was my silence for past few months. Our conversation started as friends meeting after a long gap. Well, it was actually a long gap. She shared about her past three months activities. And even the smooth going relationship was lacking something. She said she used to stay happy with her boyfriend if I was beside her. She used to share a lot when I lift her mood from being sad. She said most of her best days was when she was with my company. Within all these words from her mouth there was an worried mind inside me because my parents were in the next room to us. When every words met their end point she had nothing to speak, it was then her tears speaking to me. And then I hold her hand, not as friends always do, but this time I felt completely different. And I realized the true meaning of love.
Love is not what you will keep as a trophy inside your home. It’s not like owning someone for the rest of our life. Love is there when you are together someone you love and even if it is for few hours, days or years it’s worth cherishing. That’s what being together means. Being together can heal pains, being together gives power and strength. Being together can teach you the true feeling of love. Being Together is Bliss. So live it and be together to live this life.

The positive spirit of HOPE

We know the moments when we feel strong and confident. It’s the person only who can envision his/her entire life on hope and optimism when he is confident about himself/herself. Often hope downgrade us by telling our brain that tomorrow will be better but to make it more better we don’t give our best to our present. So much of hope is thus a negative trait too. It’s us and we have to decide how much we have to give effort and for what stuffs we should keeping our hopes alive.
Its been around an year I was far away from blogging. I missed the golden days to blog as I was busy in living an enjoying my previous year with a lots of memories to share which I didn’t. Now this year I have decided to live these days so that it will give my loved stuffs back. The first is writing and a lot more in the list to follow.
I remember When I was a kid I used to scribble down my every mistakes, achievements, gifts and a lot more things. I love to write but with every age went past by my side I lost the spirit to scribble down anymore. But now I got my strength back. And this let me keeping my hopes alive for the rest of my life. Now I knew as writing is always so creative for me. It get my brain running and thinking. I think I will use this as my weapon to fight stress, anger, anxiousness and a lot more emotions. And in return when everything will be passing by my side I will keep my nerves under my control to witness this change happening around me. Now I will try to control my surrounding and my emotions rather my surrounding and emotions controlling me.
Sometime writing give me a new perspective to see this world from my point of view. I feel like writing away my future in a diary and act according to my script so that I can do what I want and get what I want. And the best thing if this was possible I may become the next Chitragupt.
Its been so easy to create an entirely different world of your own with your words. Its like becoming the creator. That’s why I love this as writing fills me up with hope and optimism to get the innovative and creative ideas out of my mind. It gives existence to the thoughts. It gives soul to the words and life in papers. Hope and optimism thus stays in my life for my future to make things better in every steps and ages of my life. And after all being hopeful after your every efforts is what you can do and the rest is left on the almighty above.

Strangers Turned Friend

Tracing back to times of our age we hardly remember the very first person, a stranger at that time, of our age becoming friends. Yes we all know friends are strangers first. And these are just few choices, likes, interests, passion and some other common grounds on which we build our relationships as friends. Certainly we were kid and innocent enough to know about friendship. In those times they were our classmates, kids of dad’s and mom’s friend, neighbour’s kids and interacting with them is our only choice so Friends by default.
We grow up and start filtering and choosy in selecting friends. We search for the perfect match with us. So what does a perfect companion means? And this time it’s an open for all question. As we all know we are different so will choose different too. For me I got someone and eventually I am in love with her and now working upon to make her my best friend too.
And for the sake of my blog let me light some words before you what a perfect companion stand for. In my opinion friends do have different dreams, passion, hobbies, interests and even different character. Amid all these differences conflict too arises and that’s completely normal to have. So what will make it perfect then? It’s the ethics, values and understanding on common grounds that make a perfect pair of friends. It’s the support and motivation they share when they are one their highs and lows. It’s always how they celebrate not with similar stuffs but with the same spirit in their hearts. We are listening from our childhood a friend in need is a friend indeed. And these are the times when one can truly know about their friends. The made for each other is not only a phrase for lovers but it stays true for friends too.
Perfection is when you know the needs and changing habits of your friend even when you are far apart. It’s when you are the reason of something good in your friend’s life. It’s when you truly support on some decisions and discuss over some changing views. It’s when you motivate from your heart seeking good for your friend.
Friends are what we chose so don’t manipulate them. If they are not beside you in your head when you are at your worst they don’t even deserve to be at your best too. Leave them and move ahead.
Find friends who can encourage you not drag you back. Search for them who can support, not bully you. Choose them who think your life as theirs too. Preserve them who want to stay connected with you for the lifetime ahead.
Have friends and enjoy to the fullest.

Digital Face of India

#DigitalIndia

Digital India, one of it's kind for us, the people of India by our present government . A new initiative since independence for a complete make over and for a complete change. The dream of our present prime minister to see our country's governance spread through world wide web . His dream to see services fulfilling in every hands whether it's urban or countryside people of our country. His dreams to make india no more a developing nation but to make it a developed nation . His visions to give power to citizens through media and internet.
    And here Intel, the computing giant, is helping India to make this happen . To make our dreams come true through it's few initiatives. As they know and understood what stands behind a change. As they were once the pioneer of this kind of change. They changed our computer world and this present is the evidence.
    This digital India mission will give a giant leap for our citizens. As of now everything is going the e-way. The online craze is on. Whether it's shopping or dating, real estates or properties, services or grievances, almost everything is under our fingertips. Just a click or touch away and we are into an ocean of informations and support. This digital India mission will make people getting things done from home itself. No more long queues or long hours to wait for . There will be a lot of database to surf for, lots of things to be aware and learn and a lot of time to save.

    This digital age can make our country stands for our pride and respect and can make a easy way to lot of audiences. It can be tourism, research, medicines, media etc. Digital India have the potential to raise our country's standard globally as a major key player in world economy.

    Within a few years we can surely see a better India ahead with a better governance and fine working policies. Those days will be back soon when India ruled the globe but this time not as the golden bird but as a diverse digital nation.

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Together with my family

I bet none of us remembered the very first day of our kindergarten or play school . That was the day, may be when most of us cried for going away from our parents. But what was their in our life ahead. The journey started then and we made ourselves comfortable with the strangers. And those were the days when we were being together as friends. We always need a companion or a group to share, care, love, support , cheer for being together in grief, loss, happiness, achievement, success and struggle.
    Being together is the best feeling we ever have. They can be our parents, friends, spouse, kids, co-workers and even strangers sometime. Here every individual is unique and alone in their head but still we want to be like others and went to live with others . We can even change for them to best fit with their company. We do that to live together with them. Most of us have our memorable days when we are with others as nobody can live or move ahead in our life all alone. We need others in every phase of our life.
Enough of the facts now . I know for me till graduation I don’t remember any day being together means something with my family. Everyday was same , nothing special seems to me in my family. It’s after my graduation years I realised what family matters. Being together with them was never so memorable with my parents. It was me who searched togetherness in my friends and even strangers. But now I know what their presence means to us.
Yeah, I have a lot of memorable days with my friend, love, co-workers and a lot more people. But this gap year made me realise how a day can be memorable for lifelong. It was this I felt closed to my parents more. This year I got the best days of my life with my parents.
I remembered I was at my uncle’s house during the winters and in an emergency due to some reasons they have to come here to the countryside, the typical indian village. It was very late at night around 2:00 a.m. when I went to receive my mom and dad from the station. It was around eleven months I haven’t seen them. And the moment I saw them walking out of the train the cold around me vanished. I felt myself fresh and new. I hugged my mom and I was more than happy at that moment. We had some tea and two more hours ride back to our uncle’s home. For the entire two hours I was asleep by resting my head on my mom’s shoulder and holding her hand. God knows how I felt at that moment. I was missing that for years. It was those two weeks that gave me tremendous confident, power and the mind set to achieve anything in my life. Those were my best days of this winter. We were me and my family with my uncle’s family together. Those days gave me meaning and power of being together. And eventually I cracked an interview between those days, that’s how I judged my confident and success as the result of my family together with me.
We live for the people with whom we live together. Make it best and let it be your strength.

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A New Change A New life again

Time moves on, it changes every second,  So as humanity and every person living under the sky. There’s always a new life to live if we decide to start it. If we want to make better tomorrow we have to improve and change ourselves at present. With everything new ahead of us we have to stick with better changes.
For me the new start much earlier but I failed to recognise because I don’t have the mind to see and feel the changes growing inside of us. The first time I realised this , I was a sixteen years boy. Tuitions, studies, sports and dreams I was just into all these and if I mention friends , who were they, I don’t even know them. I used to be a nerd in that. Making friends was not my cup of tea. But after Matriculation a lot changed. May be everything had changed , no more old companions, tuitions, teacher, not even the set of dreams or the sports we used to play earlier. A set of personality change hit me and I accepted that gracefully.
I made friends , later, and they became friends for lifetime and are with me till now . I got involve with relationships of mine and my friends . Started to care , love and sharemy feelings with others. Achieved unregretful  moments of fun and joy.
The changes that affects life takes time to get into us . For me it wasn’t a sudden change that carved me out of blues. It was my friendly space giver attitude which I carried in my life further ahead. And then in engineering I chose to learn something different. I chose to motivate people to lead a life chosen by a few. Those few  who are different. Those few who want to change . To change for a reason , for good and for our own success. Amid these changes I learned to dress well for every occasion. I learned to be a public speaker . I even learned how to express and impress. I learned marketing and economics and a lot more in this list.
It was my graduation years when I carved myself for the future mind set. I made a to-do list for the rest of my life. It was that I termed as my life which I lived in my graduation years. And when these were gone I still believe I am living a new life again. I cut off myself socially and just did the stuffs I wanted to do always. This is my year so took a gap after my graduation years  and started exploring my times. I travelled to places for me and my experiences . I visited peoples, all year long, whom I loved. I learned cooking for my living and tastes. Amid these I got through an interview as per my technical knowledge and now I am just waiting for the joining letter to come. Yeah I am now placed in one of the top 50 reputed companies of the world.
And once again I’ll start a new life as starting a new life is always the changes you want in yourselves. Be ready to face it and get it in you.

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My hope, My optimism and my engineering days

Hope and optimism, the words for which the world lives.

There will always be challenges, struggles, hurdles and a lot more to ponder but humanity search for their best possible ways to live this life as simple as it can be . Whether it is science or every day's life people work to make things better . They wait to get the best possible results and they make it happen too. So from where they get the fuel that drive them for ages? It'll not be wrong if I mention here about the driving force as hope and optimism, and of course the  curiosity of human nature . It's been hope and optimism for which we work today to see and live a better future. We invest ourselves and our time to build a strong foundation for a blissful life ahead with a simple thought in our head, Hope. Even if we take any decision depending upon our logical conclusion or any calculations, we always stay optimistic to the decision to be good and fruitful.

Similarly to make my experience richer and to learn more I took a bold step few years back . From having my roots linked to a middle class society I opt for engineering stream after my intermediate studies. Though it's not that much hard for my dad to pay for my studies but that results my dad had to overlook his dreams for my better future. So having a lot dreams in my head and heart I left my greenery land of Assam. From a slow and silent place suddenly I found myself in a busy and growing world where changes are like everything. With a fear in my head about how I can be  a part of this change I have started to accept things around myself.
First of all the languages there .  I was good at Hindi but people there weren't. It took a lot to grasp the fluency in English but it was not used outside the class . So anyhow got used to understand Odiya and the broken Hindi of the people there.

Secondly the food there was horrible in hostel and it took my entire four years to adjust for the food there. Mostly we had our meals outside and in partying for birthdays. In fact we have our cooking going in my room too. Yeah mostly it was fast food like noodles and pasta. Thanks God we have that option because of which I was grateful that I learned cooking .

Next challenge I faced was maintaining my academics and extra curricular activities . Though I was never serious about studies throughout the year but still we have to maintain a lot records and about my extras , it was quite hard to stick with that in exams and after that the long holidays. But anyhow both ends well and I had learned a lot in both of them.

With increasing interest and activities  it was becoming hard to give time to every thing I desired. Though I have tried to manage a lot to fulfill my passion and desire but still every dreams don't don't comes true but still with that hope to accomplish everything I continued to be involved in my stuffs.

Another challenge I have to face their was that my college's campus was  in the outskirts of the city which led me to manage my expenses which was soaring high. There were a lot of training and classes for me in the city so time and money matters a lot to me while I was traveling very frequently .

So in my four years of hope and optimism to excel in my life and  career I stepped ahead and ended it the best I could. So from beginning with a low and frightened heart I spent my days in just believing in few thing like hope and my hard work . With flying colours I passed my engineering having three cracked campus interviews and a lot more which a graduate fresher had dreamt of .

For me it was all awesome how I ended this four years . Yes it was hope and optimism that driven me this far and I made it big. And for me this hope and optimism was patience which controlled my every steps and decisions.

So in my dictionary optimism stands as patience which can give you desired results if you have given your best of performance in daily life in doing all those stuffs you loved. So have patience and led your life in doing what you love and surely ahead in life one can achieve and change what they desire for.


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Success

What is success for you ???
Do you ever asked yourself what kind of success you think for ???
Do you ever regret for not having success ???

For the truth I want to deliver is that success have no measure of quantity . Its something which differs for every individual. For anyone success can be a meal in a day and for someone a billion turnover in a day. Every individual have their own needs and demands.

So what is success then, actually ?
Success is what you have dream and try for, desired for. It can be learning how to ride a bike, to learn swimming. It can be your desired to have a girlfriend or boyfriend or the love of your life. It can be the dream to be first in a race or to be the topper of your batch. It can be the pride for fulfilling your parent's dream. It can be developing your project by working from dusk to dawn with that.

Finally, Success is what you perceive about your status. You may be worrying every time and curse your present status for not being successful or you may be happy looking every tiny expectation fulfilled and becoming successful step by step.

My last words
"DREAM BIG THROUGH A SMALL ACHIEVEMENTS.
GET THOSE AND BE HAPPY BEING SUCCESSFUL.
CHERISH THAT AND RISE UP AGAIN FOR THE NEXT LEVEL WAITING FOR YOU."

Success is not a destination , It is a journey of your life.

THE HAPPY n PERKY YOU ARE , THE SUCCESSFUL YOU ARE.

It Happens

 Wrapped my heart beneath a soiled cover, I never look again to love ever. I thought I came over the road to not fall in love ever. There was time when I suggests my friend to think before going in relation with anybody. As the popular phrase " Fools Falls in Love", I too strongly believe in that. Never concerned of the fact that its not me running the world, there's someone up there holding the strings of every life. Followed my untrodden ways, kept the feelings within me every time, love everyone as I say so that I may not stuck in one ever. Lost in loving this world I forget about ONE. The ONE ignoring itself for quite every time, never having something of its own in its life, searching for smile in everyone's laugh, he always tried to be a giver of love. The ONE is the ONE laying these words over your world, making you read his feelings and his life's big event. That was me at last, the ONE who never think of this before and , I guess, not after this anymore.

    There's a heart felt for this one geek. A girl changed the world of this ONE  changed his priority tally, and made him think what he have never think of. She shows him the path of love with her support for the life beyond this time. A girl so frank, more than the ONE, put up her love through her words. Then the ONE, me at last, having some feeling about her in fact but never dares to tell anyone, holds her hand and proposes her right before the exams.

    Its really different, the feeling of love, the purity of nature the goodness within all and the breeze so fine passing after the face of mine, with every step I proceed I know there's someone with me every time. Special I am and so perfect for her, she told me that which I never dream for. I am the lucky boy got her in my arms and thinking of never to loose her after the courage she gave me with her presence. So this I am enjoying now, the every moments of love with her. The cute n sweet face I always desired for is here before me holding my hands and I am loving her under the shades of the nature.