Strangers Turned Friend

Tracing back to times of our age we hardly remember the very first person, a stranger at that time, of our age becoming friends. Yes we all know friends are strangers first. And these are just few choices, likes, interests, passion and some other common grounds on which we build our relationships as friends. Certainly we were kid and innocent enough to know about friendship. In those times they were our classmates, kids of dad’s and mom’s friend, neighbour’s kids and interacting with them is our only choice so Friends by default.
We grow up and start filtering and choosy in selecting friends. We search for the perfect match with us. So what does a perfect companion means? And this time it’s an open for all question. As we all know we are different so will choose different too. For me I got someone and eventually I am in love with her and now working upon to make her my best friend too.
And for the sake of my blog let me light some words before you what a perfect companion stand for. In my opinion friends do have different dreams, passion, hobbies, interests and even different character. Amid all these differences conflict too arises and that’s completely normal to have. So what will make it perfect then? It’s the ethics, values and understanding on common grounds that make a perfect pair of friends. It’s the support and motivation they share when they are one their highs and lows. It’s always how they celebrate not with similar stuffs but with the same spirit in their hearts. We are listening from our childhood a friend in need is a friend indeed. And these are the times when one can truly know about their friends. The made for each other is not only a phrase for lovers but it stays true for friends too.
Perfection is when you know the needs and changing habits of your friend even when you are far apart. It’s when you are the reason of something good in your friend’s life. It’s when you truly support on some decisions and discuss over some changing views. It’s when you motivate from your heart seeking good for your friend.
Friends are what we chose so don’t manipulate them. If they are not beside you in your head when you are at your worst they don’t even deserve to be at your best too. Leave them and move ahead.
Find friends who can encourage you not drag you back. Search for them who can support, not bully you. Choose them who think your life as theirs too. Preserve them who want to stay connected with you for the lifetime ahead.
Have friends and enjoy to the fullest.